To love children the most we need to:
Accept who and what they are. Learn what their strengths and weaknesses are. Be ready to give both honest praise and positive criticism. Encourage them to sometimes go constructively outside of boundaries to learn more. Encourage them also to take conservative, well planned risks.
Tell them to look into the mirror to see a wonderful, smiling face grinning back at them. Acknowledge that mistakes are learning experiences; some of the biggest mistakes gave humans some wonderful inventions. Be ready to forgive and be forgiven. Tell them to shoot for the stars and be happy if they get halfway there.
Children are our joy, they are part of our life. they give us more love into our heart.